Java with Juli ® Podcast

It happens.

Despite good intentions, perhaps without realizing it, you say something careless to a single friend. You've got time. Let God write your love story.

Sometimes, there's no harm done. Other times... it hurts.

In this episode, find out what not to say to your single friends and what to say instead.

Guest: Lisa Anderson, Boundless

Show notes:

• Join the webinar! "What Kind of Gift is Sexuality if I Can't Have Sex?"
• The Boundless Show
• What Do I Do With My Sexual Desires? (Juli's blog)
• Java #407: Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You're Asking Us
• The Dating Manifesto by Lisa Anderson
• Sex & the Single Girl by Juli Slattery

Could it be that Proverbs 31 isn't just for married women? In its original language, this 22-line Hebrew poem is a picture of the intimate relationship between Christ and his Bride (and if you follow Jesus, that's you).

Guests: Hannah Nitz & Robin Luton

Show notes:

• Valor: A Messianic Journey Through Proverbs 31 by Robin Luton
• Join us over the next two weeks for a special Java series on singleness, dating with purpose, and finding intimacy.
• New webinar series! Sex & the Single Christian

What’s the difference between sexual identity and gender identity?

Should parents use preferred pronouns? Or allow kids to dress in a gender-fluid way?

Is the rise in gender dysphoria just a “trend”?

Join us as we seek to better understand the complexity beneath gender dysphoria. You CAN lean into compassion—and keep your convictions—as you engage with others who are walking in this space.  

Help for parents here! Grab your Java and join us.

Guest: Dr. Julia Sadusky

• Emerging Gender Identities by Dr. Mark Yarhouse & Dr. Julia Sadusky*
• Understanding Gender Dysphoria by Dr. Mark Yarhouse*
• #396: Diverse Gender Identities: How to See the Person Behind the Issue
• #397: How To Help Families Navigate Questions About Gender Identity

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Feeling stuck in your friendships? You're not alone! As the seasons of life change, our friendships don't always keep up. If you're looking for practical wisdom to help you create meaningful connection with others, this episode is for you!

"Building rooted community is the practice of little, by little, by little..." Bailey Hurley

Follow @authenticintimacy and @bailey.t.hurley on IG and tell us, Which of the four friend types are you? Do you have one of each type in your circle of friends?

Guest: Bailey T. Hurley

Show notes and next steps:

• Together Is a Beautiful Place by Bailey T. Hurley* Grab a few friends and read through it together—make it a temporary book club!
• New online book studies start this fall! Join us to go through one of our Authentic Intimacy books with like-minded men and women.
• Pick up a Java Pack and grab some friends. Host a "Pizza & Podcast Party" and listen and/or go through the discussion Qs together. (PS. Read more about a "Pizza & Podcast Party" in Bailey's book!)

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Their friendship defied the odds. In the late 60s, in the South, these men weren’t supposed to become friends. Yet, with Jesus as their common ground, they began to seal up tiny little cracks in the racial divide around them. What if we all did that?

Grab your Java. Hear their story.

Guests: Gary Chapman & Clarence Shuler

Show notes:

Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships by Gary Chapman & Clarence Shuler*

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