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Q&A: How Do I Help My Family Heal From The Effects of My Porn Use?

Jonathan Daugherty from Be Broken Ministries answers this question for us: "Normally, 'What would Jesus do?' is the right question, but how do I help my wife and children heal from the pain I’ve inflicted as a husband and father from viewing pornography is something Jesus never did?"

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Relational Revelation

As a Christian psychologist, I sometimes feel like I’m in the crosshairs of pastors and therapists who disagree about the road to healing. Those who study theology and teach the Bible often emphasize the importance of God’s Word and prayer. Christians in the therapy world call out the importance of scientific approaches like the need to reprocess trauma or understand the impact of f...

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Q&A: If My Husband Is In the Mood, But I Am Not, Should I Take Care of His Needs Anyway?

This week's question is an important one for married couples: " What do you do when your husband is in the mood for sex, but you can’t fulfill his needs because there are a thousand things on your mind? Do you just give into his request even though you are not doing it from the heart?"

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So What Exactly Is Biblical Submission?

*The two-part blog series we’re wrapping up this week is a sneak peak into what Dr. Juli Slattery has been working on ... a complete rewrite of her book Finding the Hero in Your Husband. Stay tuned for updates on when it will be released in 2021!* Now that we have established what it does not mean, let’s look at what submission actually means. The word that appears as &ldquo...

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I Despise Neediness in Myself

This guest post by Mary DeMuth first appeared here. This is one of those posts I am starting that I don’t know how it will end. During this time of COVID, racial tension, and employment worries, I (like you) have had some space to observe my life. And something has bothered me. I get mad when I see someone offer grace to a struggling person. And that makes no sense to me. ...

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Q&A: How Do I Set Boundaries With A Spouse After Infidelity?

Dr. Slattery answer's this important question: "How do I set boundaries after a betrayal; after infidelity?"

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What Submission Isn't

*The two-part blog series we’re kicking off this week is a sneak peak into what Dr. Juli Slattery has been working on ... a complete rewrite of her book Finding the Hero in Your Husband. Stay tuned for updates on when it will be released in 2021!* In my job speaking on topics of sexuality, I’ve had to address a lot of uncomfortable and controversial issues. But there’s...

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Q&A: We Have a Great Sex Life, But My Husband Is Never Satisfied. What Do I Do?

This week's question comes from a wife: " No matter how often we have sex, my husband is just never satisfied. Our sex life is good, it’s passionate, and in the moment we’re both satisfied. But he immediately wants more. As soon as I tell him I’m too tired or have too much work to do, it results in a fight. I love that we enjoy sex so much but I fear it’...

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Who Takes Out the Trash?

Household chores represent probably the most pressing “minor issue” in marriage for a lot of couples because it’s a conflict that never goes away. Every day, someone has to do the dishes, take out the trash, do laundry, cook dinner, and clean the sink. There’s no vacation from housework. Dust doesn’t stop collecting because you need a break. This means that if you ...

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Q&A: My Husband Is No Longer Interested in Sex. What Do I Do?

This question comes from a wife: "My husband of 35 years does not want to have sex with me. For the last four years he’s totally stopped pursuing me and he doesn’t want to talk about it. So what should I do?"

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